Should I stay with her?
My long distance girlfriend of a year and a half has moved in with me to get her secondary degree – when we were long distance things were fine, we had ups and downs but generally all was good.
Now it seems like we are hardly affectionate, and she is often moody and unresponsive or distant. Sometimes I snore which I know affects her sleeping quality – and Im working on getting that fixed – but I feel like all I hear from her is the negative…my apt. is smaller than where she used to stay (her parents house), why do I live in the poor part of town, how come we arent going out as much (i work full time and have to make a lot of student loan payments), etc…
Ive tried problem solving and listening to her when she complains about her job, paying for school, missing her folks but I feel like at this point she feels annoyed with me more than she loves me…
Any advice?
I feel your pain I been in a similar situation with my ex. Unfortanly I tried to make it work for 3 years it was the same thing constant complaining. I cant do any thing right. You should let her know how you feel about the complaining and distance and that you are doing your best and thats all you can do. Tell her that maybe its best if we take some time off. I think your relationship is dead the only thing to do right now is break up. I know its hard but you will both be happy once you get over each other.
This Cat is SNORING? …Mumbling? …Something? Weird.
